It’s what I believe

I asked “him” on the way home from Lowes/Menards last night – you think we will ever just be carefree. He just smiled and looked out the window. I needed to feel some control, so I was driving. Seems right now that life has come out of left field and introduced itself again….right field and infield were already up to the plate. At 55, I’m just learning how to roll with it…the rhetoric and advice from my younger years was lip service. Kind of like I was saying what I knew was right, but didn’t practice it because I didn’t really know how. I think I just wanted to be normal and stress free so bad that I deluded myself into thinking I was rolling with it.

One thing at a time…one day at a time. Deal with it and move on..if it isn’t your problem to solve, let it go..always be there with love, understanding and forgiveness for people in your life….and adopt copious amounts of dogs and cats…That is what I believe.

Upward and Onward…

Until next time…

3 thoughts on “It’s what I believe

  1. I needed to hear this today – “if it isn’t your problem to solve, let it go”Thanks!  Too often I take stuff that really isn’t mine to worry about.I hope you are having a great day!


  2. It is what it is and you learn to go with the punches of life but I do understand one thing that I learned from my evals that I had to get to get my weight loss surgery is that I have my personal space and I only allow people and events into if I want to.   which at times is a lot easier than I thought.  needless to say I have pushed my sister out of my personal space cos of reasons that were stressing.   i want to be carefree and she just wasnt in my game plan.


  3. Yup.  Deal with it, and move on.


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