Ninasusan

Happiness gently landed on my shoulders

Do you ever meet someone and immediately don’t like them?  Vibes, arrogance, what comes out of the mouth….I question motives, I hear things..I question the arrogance or just ignorance..I don’t need to be nice, just professional…sometimes professional is tough…I let them get to me..it’s me.  When this has happened in the past, I’ve been forced by my lack of control to nicely, verbally kick their ass so they know to tread lightly.  I’m trying not to do that this time although they know that there is an issue because they are dancing around like an idiot when they just need to shut the pie hole…just venting here…others feel the same because it is talked about..same issues as I see..how do others just keep calm or is their gossip their way of dealing with it.  Why is it important, why do I let it bother me as long as it doesn’t affect me, just let it go…they will hang themselves with enough free rope…just deal with what you have to deal with and quit thinking about it… ignore and  maintain……

Then there is subject number 2…I don’t think there is a lick of smarts in there…just the mouth..just the need to constantly talk…doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing or thinking..talk talk talk…SHUT UP…. I mostly totally ignore to the point of being a bitch…afraid that if I let loose, Ill hurt feelings and I don’t want to do that…just SHUT UP…

Those are the only two people in my life right now that cause me angst…they aren’t really in my life…they just brush against my life…who says I have to be kind and just take it…can I say…go away…shut up…you don’t need to talk to me and if there is a reason to talk to me…do it..short, sweet and to the point……

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  1. lol, I hear you and agree wholeheartedly!!!!

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  2. @Kissedbyadog – Oh yes…you are right!!

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  3. That’s a tough one.  I have a few of those.  Mostly I’m polite – curt – short and too the point and I leave no room for extra conversation.  So – after awhile they have gotten the HINT and they now operate on a business only basis.  It’s hard to brush it off sometimes – especially when you’re head is screaming and you’re dreaming of ways to make them shut up.  Good luck. 

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