One thing that I didn’t realize when I was young, was the cycles one goes thru in their life.  I speak solely of myself here but I find in general, just from listening to conversation, that this may be universal with the difference being the individual changes of cycles.  Most recently, I find myself feeling almost personally selfish…I don’t feel the need to socialize just to socialize…the people I want to be with are the people I am with and the people that I used to have to psych myself up to be around just aren’t in my life anymore.  Selfish…is that the word or may I categorize it as quality time.  Along those same lines, I occasionally wonder if something is wrong with me because I’m so content to stay home…I don’t need to be doing something all of the time..being with people…being in groups…I want to be home doing what I want to do until I decide I want to go somewhere.  Selfish…is that the word or may I categorize it as content with myself….I love to reconnect with folks on facebook..I love to read their posts every day and see what they are up to.  I would not be able to keep up with all of the happenings if I had to call and talk to everyone on the phone everyday…I just wouldn’t do it.  Someone told me recently that she thought I was hiding behind my computer…I gave her opinion some thought and I know this is not true.  I am just in a different place than she is in.  I love making connections with my new and old friends on a daily basis on the computer…

Never before have I been comfortable to pursue my hobbies…I have a lot of interests and I am having fun.  I have friends like me, I have friends more reclusive than me and I have friends who are still social butterflys.  As long as you are living the dream..whose business is it anyway….